Saturday, January 05, 2008

Tender Mercies

After much prayer, fasting and a few trips to the temple, we finally came to the conclusion that it was time to prepare for Trent's departure to Yuma for his next rotation. In the last few days we have been discussing travel expenses, housing, food, and other logistics of our temporary separation. Admittedly, I shed a few tears in frustration that Midwestern couldn't find a single Pediatrician to accept a student in the huge metropolis of Phoenix, AZ. However, I had just come to terms with the situation when our prayers were answered...
Trent doesn't have to go to Yuma!
Not a moment too soon, Trent got a voice mail that a physician in Chandler was willing to work with him. This has been such a good learning experience for me. First, I recognized many women are apart from their loved ones a heck of a lot longer than 6 weeks, for various reasons. (I'm thinking of you, Cheryl!) I know I could have and would have done fine for six weeks... but frankly, I just didn't want to. Can you blame me? Secondly, I know that prayer works. I thought it ironic that our prayers were answered after I accepted the situation for what it was. With this acceptance, I felt strengthened and empowered that I could handle it. Personally, I think this whole fiasco was for my own growth.

Thanks to our friends in Yuma who offered to look after and feed Trent, my awesome friends here who suggested a plethora of girls nights to fill my void, and my sweet family who offered to help me with Ty and household responsibilities. I'm so lucky to have such great people all around me! (And, even though he's staying now, I'm not opposed to some of those girls night out plans!!) We are very, very thankful for the tender mercies of our Heavenly Father.

13 comments:

Unknown said...

yay!

Beka said...

i still cant believe what a MIRACLe it was! i know it was b/c of your amazing faith...you taught me a lesson too:)

Courtney said...

That is so great...what a relief!

Linz said...

What a blessing! So happy for you!

The MacMizzles said...

congratulations to your fam, I am truly happy for you.

morgan larsen said...

that is so wonderful that it worked out that trent got to stay, but also good that you were able to let him go if need be.

mad white woman said...

yeah for you! what a relief.

The Arizona Blake Family said...

Yay! I'm happy for you guys!!

Auburn said...

Yeah! I'm so glad to hear that, but let's please still get together.

Kari said...

Fabulous news Rach!! Congrats that he gets to stay!!

Jennie said...

That's wonderful! Maybe I should think of doing something like that for us too since Trevor has to do 3 separate 4 week rotations out of state next year. How am I going to survive?!!!

Jill Manning said...

Oh my gosh, as much fun as it would have been to have Trent in Yuma, I am so happy to hear that he doesn't have to move here! I don't blame you for a second for feeling the way you do, 6 weeks of that kind of routine (especially in Yuma), would feel like a lot longer. I am so happy for you guys, its amazing how the Lord chooses to teach us lessons.

Nash said...

That is such a great experience. It teaches us as well, learning from yours.